i weirdly heard that adele go-go remix blasting out a car window today, and it's just gonna be a fucking slam-cut DC-memories friday i guess
@bikepedantic I moved back home to MN two weeks after Dave was killed. A lot changed. Not all bad or all good, but it was certainly a moment of upheaval. The move didn’t have anything to do with Dave, but it was a whole lot of grief and anger and awareness-of-mortality to be sitting with during a cross-country move and complete disruption of routine and sense of place, and I think it had a particular significance to me in that sense.
Been the unalloyed worst five years of my life, starting with that day, and almost all anniversaries are bittersweet at best. This is 40, kids.